There can be no personal reconciliation with thy self without a deep understanding and transmutation of your own personal journey and in your words and/or expression.
When thy self shares truth know that someone may express a a mirror - another transmutation of deep understanding and reconciliation to deepen they/their understanding of thy self.
allow the mirrors to show you truth .
allow the mirrors to show you smoke
Embrace the opportunity to witness without judgement and you will be able to release attachments to emotions, old narratives and suffering from your body and psyche.
Set thyself free